Keeping your address private from your ex

Why does address safety become a concern during divorce?

Many women worry that an ex-husband or a husband still in the divorce process will try to locate them, especially where there is a history of control or cruelty in the marriage. This concern is valid and should be taken seriously.

If your safety is at risk at any point, contact Talian Kasih at 15999 first before handling anything else, including court matters.

What can I do while court documents are being processed?

Raise your address safety concern with your Peguam Syarie as early as possible in the process. They understand how to give the court what it needs without exposing your location widely to the other party.

Do not assume you must disclose every personal detail without protection. How information is presented can be adapted to your situation.

How do I protect my new address?

Be careful about sharing your new address, including on social media, through mutual friends, or family members still in contact with your ex-husband. Even a small piece of information can reach him without you knowing.

If you need to communicate with him about children or court matters, use official channels such as your Peguam Syarie or the court, rather than direct communication that exposes your location.

Is there extra protection for cases involving cruelty?

If cruelty or threats are part of your situation, this can form a ground related to fasakh alongside the safety issue that needs urgent attention. Your Peguam Syarie can advise on how both issues are handled together.

Do not wait for things to get worse before acting. Acting early usually gives you more protective options.

What is the immediate step if I feel unsafe right now?

Contact Talian Kasih at 15999 immediately for crisis support. They can guide you to the right protective step, including temporary shelter if needed.

Once your immediate safety is addressed, you can continue discussing with a Peguam Syarie how to handle the court case while protecting your personal information.

How do I balance safety with what the court process needs?

The court needs certain information to process your case, but this does not mean everything must be disclosed openly to the other party. Tell us your actual concern, and we will help you see how to manage both needs together.